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INFJ (the counselor)
INFJ in a Nutshell
INFJs are creative nurtures with a strong sense of personal integrity and a drive to help others realize their potential. Creative and dedicated, they have a talent for helping others with original solutions to their personal challenges. The Counselor has a unique ability to intuit others emotions and motivations, and will often know how someone else is feeling before the person knows it himself. They trust their insights about others and have strong faith in their ability to read people. Although they are sensitive, they are also reserved; the INFJ is a private sort, and is selective about sharing intimate thoughts and feelings.
What Makes the INFJ Tick
INFJs are guided by a deeply considered set of personal values. They are intensely idealistic, and can clearly imagine a happier and more perfect future. They can become discouraged by harsh realities of the present, put they are typically motivated and persistent in taking positive action nonetheless. The INFJ feel and intrinsic drive to do what they can to make the world a better place. INFJs want a meaningful life and deep connections with other people. They do not tend to share themselves freely but appreciate emotional intimacy with a select, committed few. Although their rich inner life can sometimes make them seem mysterious or private to others, they profoundly value authentic connections with people they trust.
Recognizing an INFJ
INFJ often appear quiet, caring and sensitive, and may be found listening attentively to someone else's ideas or concerns. They are highly perceptive about people and want to help others achieve understanding. INFJs are not afraid of complex personal problems; in fact they are quite complex themselves, and have a rich inner life that few are privy too. They reflect at length on issues of ethics, and feel things deeply. Because Counselors initially appear so gentle and reserved, they may surprise others with their intensity when one of their values is threatened or called into question. Their calm exterior belies the complexity of their inner worlds. Because INFJs are such complex people, they may be reluctant to engage with others who might not understand or appreciate them, and can thus be hard to get to know. Although they want to get along with others and support them in their goals, they are fiercely loyal to their own system of values and will not follow others down a path that does not feel authentic to them. When they sense that their values are not being respected, or when their intuition tells them that someone's intention are not pure, they are likely to withdraw.
INFJ in the Population
INFJ is the rarest type in the population. It is at least common among men, and the third least common among women. INFJs make up:
- 2% of general population
- 2% of men
- 1% of women
Popular Hobbies
Popular hobbies for INFJ include writing, art appreciation, cultural events, reading, socializing in small intimate settings, and playing or listening to musics.
Interesting Facts About INFJ:
- Least common type in the population
- On personality trait scales, scored as Sincere, Sympathetic, Unassuming, Submissive, Easygoing, Reserved and Patient
- Among most likely to stay in college
- Among highest of all types in college CGPA
- Most likely of all type to cope with stress by seeing a therapist
- Highest of all types in marital dissatisfaction
- Commonly found careers in religion, counselling, teaching and the arts.
So tu lah dia aku punya personality, sincerely cakap almost 99.9% memang character aku. Tapi aku mengaku 80% sajalah yang betoi pun... =p
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